people treat me like some sort of charity case. im not this lonely pathetic girl who sits at home alone on a friday night…well i am but i do that because i want to! i dont like hanging out with large groups of people that isnt my family. i enjoy having alone time and i perfer it sometimes. so dont say that you talk to me all night because you feel sorry for me that you think im lonely. dont plan a surprise party for me because you thought i was miserable and lonely while you were away. dont hang out with me all the time after a break up and completely forget about me when i have a boyfriend. is it so hard to ask for someone to not feel sorry for me? im not pathetic, i dont pity myself, im happy on my own. id much rather sit on the couch and watch movies with my sister than go to a party…thats just me. so stop thinking that im pathetic.